I want adventure in the great wide somewhere

When I was 12, my Aunt took me with her the summer she moved from Arizona to Illinois for a job. This is the first clear memory I have of traveling anywhere – I have blurry memories of driving from Lake Tahoe to Arizona – but nothing as clear as sitting with her watching states roll by through the window of her Saturn.

It was my first time seeing emerald green as a color that plants and landscapes could have in the humid morning we spent in the Ozarks of Missouri or the Bright red dirt of Oklahoma. It was as if the girl who spent a lot of time buried in books to seek adventures was finally getting to be the star of her own adventure. I attribute this trip as the spark to my wanderlust for adventure and travel – the trip that taught me what it was like to breathe.

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